Things You Need To Think About Prior To Marrying

Written by-Connor Nicholson

Planning her own wedding is one of the most stressful events any woman will ever go through. The hardest part is choosing the perfect dress. It is a mistake for a woman to go try on dresses without some idea of what she likes. Another huge blunder is inviting the entire bridal party, all the mothers, and even the groom.



When you are marrying someone, it is important to work as a team when it comes time to plan your wedding. Try to optimize your decisions by coming to a compromise on the disagreements that you have so that you can both be as happy as possible when your big day comes.

Make sure that everyone in your wedding party knows how they're getting to the wedding site and back home from your wedding! This is especially important if you're going to be serving alcohol, and essential if it's an open bar. If you're worried about anyone getting too inebriated, offer free cab rides to anyone who doesn't bring a car, or drive them home in your limo.

Keep your outdoor wedding decorations simple, at all costs. You will want to be the central of your wedding and too many decorations can take away from this. Keep your decorations very neat and ornate, but make sure not to go overboard, in order to allow your guests to maximize their experience.

When deciding on your wedding cake, try to achieve colors that will match your theme. You can use a Pantone book, to help you find the exact colors that you will be using. Most cake bakeries use this book to help them color the cake to match your wedding. Having a cake that completely matches your color scheme, can be very impressive for your guests.

When purchasing your wedding cake, think about the options that could save you money. If you want a fancy wedding cake, purchase a small one for just the wedding party and buy a large sheet cake for the rest of the guests. Your guests will still enjoy it just as much as your smaller wedding cake.

The most important preparation for a wedding is to expect the unexpected. When it happens, laugh it off and let someone in your wedding party deal with it. No matter what it is, it will be resolved, and you'll look back and laugh at it someday. Really, it's true!

Spend as much time as you need when writing your wedding vows. Remember you want your soon-to-be spouse to know how much they mean to you. Also, try not to use outside sources when writing your vows--you want to make sure the words are what you feel, not what someone does.

When the ceremony is over and you're happily married, don't celebrate like you're in the end zone of a football game. You and your spouse should plan what reaction you'll have, and it's best if you both smile graciously and walk down the aisle together holding hands. No jumping up and down or dancing!

As the bride, it is very important that you have a dress that you feel mentally comfortable in. If you are very self-conscious in your wedding dress, you will be very unhappy during the event. The wedding lasts a long time and it is your night, so you want to be happy and comfortable the entire time!

When inviting loved ones to destination weddings, try finding out if they wish to stay for your honeymoon, too. Everyone will enjoy a discount for the longer stay, and that will save everybody money. This will give them a day to remember and a vacation of their dreams, too!

It may be wise to put an announcement for your wedding in the newspaper. read on is common to forget to invite certain people to your wedding, and you do not want to make anyone feel neglected. Do not forget to put the location, date and time of your wedding in the announcement.

If the majority of your wedding guests are staying in local hotels or inns, send them off with thoughtful favors that they can use to relax before their long trip home. Scented, soothing bath salts, luxury soaps, and spa-inspired products are the perfect favors; they can be quickly and cheaply put together and thrown into a suitcase.

Cut your cost for photography by incorporating disposable cameras for your guests. If you allow your guests to handle the candid photography during the reception, you can cut your photo budget down to just pictures of the wedding, wedding members and family. You will find that these photos generate more memorable moments than one photographer could capture.

Shop around! Make sure you call plenty of florists when you are pricing flowers for your big day. Wedding flowers can be one of the costliest parts of your planning process. You may want to look into creating your own arrangements and buying your flowers from a wholesale outlet. There are many flower arranging tips online that can help.

Give your guests directions to both your ceremony and reception site (if they are different). Online direction sites and GPS machines can be wrong or there may be an easier way to get your guests where they need to be. Print out your own or ask the reception site if they have handouts that you can give to your friends and family.

Consider using fake flowers for your wedding. This saves a lot of money and most people will not be able to tell that they aren't real. If you are crafty, you can put together the arrangement yourself in advance of your big day. You can also spray a floral scent on the bouquet if you want the flowers to smell fresh.

When you are visiting places that you are going to have your reception make sure you have a check list of questions you would like to ask. You may want to ask how many people it can comfortably seat and also how late you can stay there the night of your reception.

Have the majority of your pictures taken during the ceremony and immediately after. If you are able to hire your photographer for a certain number of hours, you will save money. If you are concerned about not having pictures at the reception, place disposable cameras on the tables and allow your guests to snap pictures.

Weddings can be stressful events, especially if you have not done the proper amount of research and planning. Make your life easier by taking advice from people who have been there. It's nice to avoid mistakes that others in your shoes have made. You will cut down on your financial burden, as well as your stress.